Relationships impede autonomy. So does having a plant.
Are you giving beyond your capacity and resenting others for not reading your mind?
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I’ve heard “relationships impede my autonomy” by people who’ve lovebombed me, from Brooke Lynn Heights on Season 11 of RuPaul’s Drag Race, and by many others. I often find myself wondering…
Do relationships impede your autonomy or are you putting off healing the attachment wounds that created your avoidant strategies?
Do relationships impede your autonomy or are you afraid of being known?
Do relationships impede your autonomy or are you afraid of disappointing people?
Do relationships impede your autonomy or do you lose yourself in relationships?
Do relationships impede your autonomy or do you perhaps not know yourself very well?
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Eve from my own series called Portraits of Young Women, 2017.
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