What would you like to ask a consent educator?
Send in your questions!
I’m going to start a new segment on here (or perhaps an entirely new Substack?!) for reader-submitted questions.
Submit your questions here and I’ll answer them on this Substack. They’ll be free for 1 week before they get auto-paywalled. Paying subscribers’ questions will be prioritized.
Ask your questions that you’d like answered from the perspective of a consent educator. Some suggestions:
Sex questions! Any and all.
Why are people interested in consensual nonconsent?
Isn’t it un-feminist for a woman to be submissive?
Anything related to power dynamics in:
the workplace
I’m struggling to set boundaries with my boss
with your roommates
No one will take responsibility for the dishes in the sink. What do I doooo?
family
How do I explain what nonbinary means to my grandpa?
Gender related questions
How do I know if I’m genderqueer?
I’m curious about they/them pronouns but unsure of how to try it out without declaring “these are my pronouns now.”
And anything else you want!
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After spending ten years in New York working in theater and visual art, I returned to my hometown of Los Angeles in 2018. I’m a writer, consent educator, multi-media philosopher-artist, and Intimacy Coordinator for TV, Film, and Theater invested in helping others find their voice. My BA in Philosophy, and my academic background in gender studies, ethics, and neuroscience informs my work. I am the author of Boundaries & Consent: A Workbook (Flower Press, 2022) and the Boundaries + Consent for People Pleasers workbook (For the Birds Trapped in Airports, 2023).
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