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We have to stop canceling each other so we can save each other’s lives.

Boundaries from me to me

Slowing Way Down: The Power of Specific Asks

Trying to be friends with your ex when you've still got the feels

Magic is in the gut, not the head.

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There’s magic in desire

Ways to make it easier for people to say 'no' to you

Soy Coordinadore de Intimidad en sets y eso me ha ayudado a abrazar mi tímidez en la cama

Editing a book that got canceled is proving challenging

I’m less of a “born this way” person and more of a “became this way” person.

POV: You have just participated in canceling someone

If you want to make someone feel good, you'll figure out how to make them feel good

“I Said No:” Verbal and Nonverbal Communication

Gatekeeping queerness doesn't make you more queer

Prioritizing joy required new boundaries

Upcoming Classes at Consent Wizardry

Talking to teens about consent

The Limitations of Empathy

SQUIRM: A True Story

When trying actually makes a difference

Deep dive into the Yes-to-No Spectrum

“I’m more afraid to sing because I know I can than because I’m afraid I can’t.”

Consent in Hollywood: An Intimacy Coordinator’s Take on the Blake Lively/Justin Baldoni Mess

Editing a book is weird.

“Those Studies Don’t Include Me:” The Dilemma of Self-Advocacy

“You Can’t Treat Me That Way:” The Gut Speaks

The Weight of Unspoken Expectations

Creative expression as a mirror

“This is usually how I act/think/feel/talk when:”

"If I am a certain project from birth..."

Diffusion

My Record Collection

Glorious Bastards