Sitemap - 2024 - Unsolicited Advice from Mia Schachter
I pitied her as I've been pitied
When we practice listening to our bodies, we practice honesty.
Boundaries + Consent for People Pleasers Syllabus, Resources, and Assignments
What am I doing here? Looking for meaning?
6 Patterns in Early Consent Learning
People-Pleasing and the Importance of Knowing What We Want
“It’s almost like you didn’t know the book wasn’t finished yet.”
What should I do if she says, "You don't need to do all that consent stuff?"
What would you like to ask a consent educator?
The world is unprepared to hold sick people like me
One of the most radical and anti-capitalist things you can do is like yourself as you are.
“You Can’t Fake Believe in God”
The People Who Will Cancel You Agree with 99 Out of 100 Things You Say
Boundaries + Consent Workbooks
Utterly unenthusiastic but totally consensual sex
Special Episode: Virginia Woolf: Who is she writing for? (Or, for whom is she writing?)
Virginia Woolf: Who is she writing for? (Or, for whom is she writing?)
You were born without your permission, after all.
I’m a cancel kid in recovery, you could say
“It’s almost like you didn’t know the book wasn’t finished yet.”
If you're too frozen to create for fear of Cancel Culture, this one's for you...
You’ve made people uncomfortable and they haven’t told you.
We got too high and had sex anyway
The Down Side of Being a “Thank You for Telling Me” Person
I'm the most frequent violator of my own consent
Learn to teach consent and other upcoming classes at CW
“If you can’t talk about sex, you shouldn’t be having sex.”
We Both Got Too High and Had Sex Anyway
I Am An On Set Intimacy Coordinator – And It Has Helped Me Embrace My Shy Self In Bed
Invite your friends to read Consent Wizardry Newsletter
Relationships impede autonomy. So does having a plant.
Consent is a shared responsibility
My needs don’t change because of someone else’s needs
Some Diagrams on Boundaries and Consent
Looking to social media for prophets of your own privately curated religion
Making the Unconscious Conscious
You will definitely abuse the power you refuse to acknowledge you have.
Consent as a Weapon of Control
The People Who Will Cancel You Agree with 99 Out of 100 Things You Say
My Approach to Intimacy Coordination
How to do consent without sounding like a robot
My needs don't change because of your needs
FOMO as a Manifestation of the Pursuit of Perfectionism
Undiagnosed gut issues made me a stoner with disordered eating
Commitment as a Relationship with Past Versions of You
6 Patterns in Early Consent Learning
Charlie James on Just Doing Stuff
Rabbi Aaron Leven on having a calling and the symbolic exemplar
Consent + Creativity: an Unexpected Link
Repentance Rituals + Cancel Culture
The Down Side of Being a “Thank You for Telling Me” Person
The Limitations of Requiring Enthusiasm in Sex and Beyond
“If you can’t talk about sex, you shouldn’t be having sex.”
Unblocked: Sam Sundius on Undiscipline
Unblocked: Kiana Elkins on Conflict and Loving Practice
Hannah Said on Coffee and Community